“Things will never be right around you until they are right in you.” ~ Terry Savelle Foy
This is the third week of the love blog challenge and I am going to schedule this post Tuesday. So that means that today is Sunday. I have never scheduled posts but this love blog challenge is making a responsible lady out of me, thanks Brita.
Today’s post is about balance.
How do I achieve balance?
I have a notebook that I write my to do and to buy lists. They are divided into daily, weekly, and monthly. This keeps me in check about spending my time and money and whether or not am misusing it. So, if I’m out having fun, I’ve probably crossed some if not all the things that need to be done.
Apart from my time and money, I also balance between school and life. Most times I am in school so I make sure that everyday after a bit of study I unwind with music or YouTube. I am just coming back to blogging after a long break, so I can’t talk about how I balance that, new year, new me. By the way guys, thank you for your support, the views, comments, likes, the interaction feels like I never left.
Also, balance for me is God being in the equation of everything I do. Currently I use the daily devotional called Open Heavens by Pastor E.A. Adeboye. It’s available as an app or as a hard copy. Hard copies are sold worldwide plus you can buy them during your national or regional conference. For example, The Kenyan and East African will be on May and November respectively so I can buy there if the Lord wills.
The benefits of balancing my time and energy:
- It prevents me from spreading myself too thin and getting fatigued. I write a lot for this blog, for http://www.afyasmilekenya.co.ke and as a freelancer because one of the goals this year is financial freedom.
- I have time for my friends and family. I am known to zone out and be into work mode for a long time so balance is being able to work while at the same time not severing my relationships.
- Be more effective. I find that I am more effective when I strive and attain balance with Christ at the center.If at some point my relationship with Christ begins to suffer, I am the most ineffective and restless I can ever be.
Do I seek friends who balance my strengths and weaknesses;
Of course yes. In areas that I feel I need to grow I read the Bible on those areas, books and seek friends that have conquered in those areas. This doesn’t mean I cannot be friends with people who have more weaknesses than I do, on the contrary, it’s all about pushing them forward into conquering them and moving on. However, they also have to be willing to grow otherwise we all stagnate.
Balance for me is having a healthy work-life, healthy friendships and healthy past times.